You are young man with your whole life ahead of you. There are hundreds, thousands, millions of women available to you. Which women should you date? For many men, the answer is simple: a young woman. However, many men, more and more, are seeking the companionship of an older woman.
Is there an advantage to dating older women? There definitely can be as dating a younger man. First of all, older women tend to be more mature than their younger counterparts. This can be very important for some men. Some men simply do not like the giggly young girl. They want a real woman. In addition, older women tend to be more stable, especially when it comes to finances. Many men simply do not want the burden of supporting a woman. Another important consideration is that older women usually are better lovers. They’ve been there and they’ve done that. In many cases, they can teach the young man a thing or two. And lastly, they probably will not become pregnant. They may have already had children, but even if they have not, at this stage of their lives they simply do not want any babies.
When dating women, especially older women, there are certain things that men can do to help themselves be more successful. The first thing to do is to be confident. Although an older woman might prefer a younger man for her own reasons, she does not want a child. She wants a confident man who is secure as a person. In order to show confidence, it is recommended that you take her on your first date to someplace where you feel totally comfortable. It is not a bad idea to go to a restaurant that you have previously dined at. This way you can confidently recommend something from the menu.
Another important tip is to know exactly who you are. Although the older woman has likes and needs, you do too. Consider your needs and make sure that they are compatible with hers. Also, it is highly advisable to be at your best. She may be older, but she still has eyes. Dress well, and look your best.
Another important tip is to realistically evaluate the date while it is going on. If it is working, great. If it is not, accept that fact. Do not try to force something that is just not going to happen. You both will be much happier if you cut your losses early.
So should you date a cougar? If you were not aware of it, “cougar” is the term currently in vogue for older women who prefer dating younger men. For many men, the answer is a definite yes. For some, it is no, while for some it is a maybe.
What have you got to lose? You could learn something, you could have a great time, and you just might meet that someone special. So what if she’s older than you? Does it really matter?